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Saturday, April 11, 2015

Spring Break

Here is how we spent our Spring Break.


Stuffing Easter eggs for the Easter egg hunt at church.


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Decorating Easter eggs
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After attending our sunrise service which was held outside in a brisk 39 degrees, we headed to Starbucks before coming home for breakfast and Easter baskets.


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Then, we went to Busch Gardens.


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On our way home, we stopped for a treat.
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50 hours of Spring Break were spent
*Driving to Pennsylvania
*Attending the last gymnastics meet of the season
*Shopping
*Becoming favorite patients of our chiropractor because we are bringing treats from the Quakertown Farmer’s Market to her.
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Pickled Tomatoes
*Driving home from Pennsylvania


What else:
*J stuffed graduation announcements/invitations.
*We worked on picture boards/timeline for S’s graduation party
*Chiropractor appointment for S
*Orthopedics appointment for my husband
*10.5 hours of practice for J
*Preparing to wrap up Senior year in the next 6 weeks


What did I write this week:
Get Through the Wave

I will be on the couch with chocolate getting ready to wrap this year up!


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Friday, April 3, 2015

It's been one of those weeks!

The Senior
S has been on break this week.  You would think he would be sleeping in since he loves to do that during school weeks.  Nope!  He has been up earlier this week than he is during school weeks.  When asked why, he replied, “I have things I need to do.”  


He is using his time during break to try to finish some things up.  He is REALLY close to finishing up his College Algebra course, so he took an assessment.  Close but not quite.  He is working on a history project and doing some German.


It has been a productive week regarding some of his “life” things he needs to finish.  His FAFSA is complete (only because we finished our taxes).  He spoke to the historian where he volunteers and asked if he could job shadow him.  That was initiative!  The historian is a wonderful man who told him yes.  He also offered to go over his research paper with him and give pointers!  He still has a list of items on the whiteboard, but it is getting shorter and shorter.


S attended a Seder Meal at church last night with my husband.  He enjoyed that.  He has horseback riding this morning.  After that, we will go to church for a noontime Good Friday service. Tomorrow he will help fill Easter eggs with candy for our church’s Easter egg hunt on Sunday. After that, he is volunteering for 4 hours.


The Sophomore
J had a busy school week since the quarter is ending.  He had two projects that were due this week, so that was how he spent his Saturday.  He worked diligently and never complained about that.  He complained about having to read 4 chapters from a novel for English.  Really?


This week at school he had an AP History test, an AP History quarterly exam, a Chemistry test, a Math test, an English test, an English quarterly exam, and a Spanish presentation.  He will be on Spring Break next week, so that is the light at the end of his tunnel.


J had an Orthodontist appointment scheduled for this week.  Fortunately, I had the date wrong since the date we thought was scheduled didn’t work because of his test schedule.  When I called to change it, I found out the correct date which didn't interfere with his testing schedule. He would have missed his appointment if I hadn't called.  We don’t miss appointments.  


He was hoping the Orthodontist would tell him his braces are coming off sometime soon.  He has had them on for 32 months.  The end is not as close as we had hoped after his last visit.  It is getting there, but this has been a very SLOW process for J.  He has been a trooper.  We looked at his initial x-rays.  Wow!  


J has been busy at practice, 17.5 hours this week.  He has a meet next week, so they are working on adding some new skills and cleaning things up in his routines.


On the Homefront
It's been one of those weeks!  The calendar is a little crazy with the color codes for everyone overlapping throughout the week.  Activities and appointments on the calendar have included: Orthodontist, Pest Control, picking up medication for S at the pharmacy, picking up medication for me at the pharmacy, picking up medication for the dog, eye appointment, back to the eye doctor to pick up J's new contacts, church council meeting, Seder meal at church, horseback riding, J's 5 nights of practice.  In between all of this, we found out I needed new brakes on my van.  We were able to get that done which was nice since we are traveling to Pennsylvania next week for J's meet.  Safety first! As long as we were swapping vehicles out at the mechanic's shop, why not take the truck in for an oil change?


We are getting together with friends tomorrow evening for an early Easter meal.  J is making the cake with an ice cream filling.  We shall see how that turns out.


On Easter Sunday, our family will attend the sunrise Easter service which is held at 6:30 am. We will head home for egg bake because that is tradition (S is adamant about that!).  Then, we will go to Busch Gardens for some fun followed by a nap when we get back home.


Here are a couple of Easter pictures from our time in Alabama.  J was in preschool, and S was in Kindergarten. As I was looking through Easter pictures, I realized that S has spent two Easters in double casts.




Happy Easter from me, the one on the couch with chocolate (possibly taken from Easter baskets).

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Wednesday, April 1, 2015

I have things I need to do.

My son has a love-hate relationship with his alarm clock.  He loves to push the snooze button and turn his alarm off.  He hates to get out of bed.  My husband has written about this situation, The Alarm Clock Paradox.

Although my son is homeschooled, we do expect him to get up at some point in the morning to start his work during a school week.  Ideally, we would like to see him start working between 9:00-9:30.  Ideally, he would love to sleep until whatever time he feels like waking up and work when it is convenient for him. I wouldn't have an issue with this except.....

There are 2 problems.
  1. The first problem is related to his ADD.  Because he takes a split dosage of medication, he needs to get up at a reasonable time to have his initial dosage so he can take the second dosage in the early afternoon (1:00-2:00).  If he takes the second dosage later in the afternoon, it can impact his sleep which perpetuates him wanting to stay up late and sleep until he feels like getting out of bed.  There have been times he has gotten up really late and thought he could skip his second dosage (NO!).  
  2. The second problem with his ideal world of sleeping in and doing his work whenever he feels like getting around to it is that, between his ADD and his CP, working late into the night isn't productive or efficient for him.

He is currently on a 2 week Spring Break.  I have a couple of tasks I would like him to complete this week, but it isn't anything too difficult.  In fact, it is work that he will enjoy - a history project and German.  I assumed he would get up a little later than a school day (9:00ish), take his medicine, lounge around, and work on these tasks a little bit before enjoying his break doing whatever.  

You know what happens when you assume!
He has gotten up earlier this week than he does during a school week.  When I brought this to his attention, he just laughed.  I asked him why he was getting up so early when he could sleep in.

"I have things I need to do."
Really?  Because during a school week, you don't have things to do?  
These are things I like to do.

There we have it.  The motivation needed to get a teen out of bed.

I will be on the couch with chocolate (my motivation for getting out of bed) trying to figure out my teenager who is an enigma.

Friday, February 27, 2015

Gymnastics, College Visit, More Snow

It has been ANOTHER snowy week here in Virginia.  J had three snow days, and my husband had two snow days.  Enough already!


The Senior
S survived his weekend trip to northern Virginia for his brother’s gymnastics meet.  After it snowed 5-6 inches prior to the meet, he opted to just hang out at the hotel and watch movies. Since the meet took quite a while, we decided he made a good choice on staying at the hotel.


On our way home, we stopped at the University of Mary Washington for a self-guided tour.  S’s former Occupational Therapist had suggested this school to him.  Since it was finally nice outside, we thought we would walk around campus to see if S would like to go back for a guided tour.  He liked the campus and wants to go back for a guided tour!  This is definitely progress for him.  


When we arrived home on Sunday, S decided he would get a jump start on his school work. He worked on his College Algebra.  He knows he is getting close to being done with the course, so he is very motivated to work on this subject.


This week he worked on College Algebra, daily journal writing, finished his notes for his research paper, German IV, and History.  We started reading another novel, Without You, There is No Us.  


I realized this week that S is having an easier time taking notes for his research paper.  I have determined it is one of three things.
  1. He is better at taking notes.
  2. He is following his outline more as he takes notes.  This outline is a little more basic than his last one.  (The topic is a little simpler than the last topic.)
  3. I am making this observation while he is using print sources rather than online sources. [Since he can’t copy and paste, he is forced to paraphrase his notes.] Therefore, the question I have asked is, “Does he do better with print sources for note taking than online sources?”  If so, he is going to have to print out text from online sources to take notes.  


S had a dentist appointment on Wednesday and had a little bit of work done.  He is getting some great lessons on growing up since he saw how much the bill was with dental insurance.
S received a phone call from DBVI this week about Vocational Rehab services. They were on our list of people to call. That was good.  He and his dad are going to meet with the counselor on Monday afternoon. Hopefully, they will get some good information. He also started filling out the application for SSI. He received a letter from the community college outlining the next steps he has to take.


We attended the Lenten service on Wednesday night after S had Youth Group.  He was supposed to have horseback riding today, but it was cancelled because of weather.  He received his schedule for next session.  He kept Fridays, but his lesson will be at 10:00.  That means we have to leave at 9:00.  It’s been a different time each session.


S will be volunteering 4 hours on Saturday. He is hoping it warms up because the Casemate becomes quite chilly inside.  


The Sophomore
J was quite happy to get back to school this week although the week started with a 2 hour delay.  He told us, “I don’t mind the 2 hour delay, but I don’t want another snow day.”  I understand!  Unfortunately, he only had school two days this week.  Tack three more snow days onto the four from last week...That's right. A federal holiday, 7 snow days, and a two hour delay in the past two weeks of school.


J had an interesting meet on Saturday evening.  He had some personal bests and a personal low.  He had a “vaultastrophe” (my new made up word); however, he wasn’t hurt and is okay. We will take the new low score and be thankful for his safety.  He took first in rings and high bar, tied for second on floor but took third, took second on parallel bars, and third on pommel. His low vault score messed up his All Around score.  Again, we are just thankful he wasn’t hurt.


I’m going to blame my husband for a lack of pictures.  He is our official photographer/videographer at the meets.  He takes pictures during warm up and tapes the actual event.  We must have been too busy talking during warm ups. [My husband told me the lighting wasn’t good in the gym which is why he doesn’t have pictures.]


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J had practice for 14 hours this week.  Practice was cancelled Thursday because of the weather. We were very happy that he could get back into the gym on Friday. He gets a little stir crazy when there isn't school or practice.


On the Homefront
We spent last weekend traveling and sitting at the meet.  J checked in at 4:15, and we made it back to the hotel at 11:00.  


The day of the meet it snowed quite a bit, so traveling to the venue was slow.   This is a picture from our hotel room.  The parking lot had already been cleaned once.


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This was supposed to be a fairly boring week which would have been okay.  My husband was supposed to have a church meeting Tuesday night so I had drop off and pick up duty.  I just stayed in the area and hung out at Starbucks.  Gave me time to read and write.  I ended up doing that; however, the church meeting was cancelled because of weather (our weather people missed this one).  J and I drove in some bad weather.  It was worse the closer we came to our house.


Since we had more snow days, it was still a boring week but a different kind of boring.  We hung out and relaxed.  We shoveled A LOT of snow, and our snow shovel was shared with the neighbors again. We tackled a few unfinished tasks around the house.  


The other day I purchased some more items for S’s graduation party.  Decoration purchases are almost done.  There are some projects we need to continue to work on since we had the opportunity to start some this week, and we will order food as the date gets closer.  Let the fun begin!


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Friday, February 20, 2015

Four Snow Days & College Stuff

It has been an unusual week at our house.  My husband took Friday off, and he and J both had Monday off for President’s Day.  This was followed by Tuesday and Wednesday being snow days for both my husband and J. J also had Thursday and Fridays as snow days this week. That's right - 4 snow days!


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The Senior
Normally, S doesn’t get much work done when everyone is home; however, he decided he was going to work hard.  He realized that if he was working on J’s snow days that he will actually be ahead of J since his days need to be made up.  Because he has worked so hard all week, I told him he could take today off and there is nothing to make up.  He’s pretty excited about that!


S worked on German IV, History, creative writing, a College Algebra assessment, and took notes for his research paper.  He also finished up a project for a novel we just read.


The exciting part of our week is that S completed his college application!  He still isn’t excited about it.  The conversation went something like this:
Me:  Why aren’t you excited?
S:  I’m just not.
Me:  If you plan on going to college, you need to apply to college.  If you aren’t going to go to college, what is your plan?
S:  I don’t have one.
Me:  Enough said.


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After submitting his application, we turned to the “fun” stuff - filling out the FAFSA.

S was supposed to go to the Chiropractor on Thursday; however, it was very icy, so we cancelled that appointment. Snow/Ice + Crutches = Falls

Horseback riding was cancelled because of the weather also. S hasn’t been out of the house since we went to church on Sunday.


S will not be volunteering this weekend.  J has a meet in northern Virginia.  S had made arrangements to stay with friends, but those plans changed.  He is now going with us.  He’s not happy about it.  Oh well!  Life goes on. We are hoping to squeeze a mini field trip in before the meet on Saturday.


The Sophomore
J had a relaxing weekend with very little homework to complete.  He had Monday off for President’s Day and finished up some AP History questions.  He had snow days on Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, and Friday. He is ready to go back to school!


J helped my husband shovel our driveway and a path in our neighbor’s driveway.  This lady is a member of our church and lives two doors down from us.  She is on Hospice care, so J and my husband made sure there was a pathway cleared for the home health nurse.  They also shoveled out a patch on the street for her to park her car.
J had the opportunity to drive a little bit in the snow. He helped move vehicles out of the driveway. He realized the difference between driving a truck with 4 wheel drive and a car in the snow.


J only practiced 10.5 hours this week since practice was cancelled Monday and Tuesday.  He was very happy to be back in the gym on Wednesday.  He enjoys practice, and he has a meet this weekend in northern Virginia.  It will be a busy weekend.


On the Homefront
We have had quite a few relaxing, family days this past week.  It has been nice.  We have enjoyed the warmth from the fireplace, watched a lot of movies, played a lot of games, read books, and slept.  It is unusual for any of us to get to sleep in very often, so we all appreciated that opportunity.  The dog even cooperated with us.


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We were bummed Wednesday night that Ash Wednesday services were cancelled; however, we understand.  Our pastor posted a link to his sermon, so we could read it at home. It was nice to be able to do that.

The roads are a mess here.  The primary roads are cleaned after a storm, but secondary streets and neighborhood roads are not cleaned here which is why they end up with so many snow days.
This is what our streets look like after day 2 of the snow.  The temperatures dropped again after these pictures, so everything froze again.  

I took the dog out for a walk yesterday morning, slipped, and fell. I have a bruised palm, but that appears to be it. Thank goodness! I broke my arm quite badly three years ago (2 plates and 19 screws), and the surgeon told me another break would be very difficult to fix. I am under orders by my husband to not walk the dog!


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We happen to have one of very few snow shovels in our neighborhood (my parents brought it from Minnesota one year), so it makes the rounds during snow weeks.
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I am going to shamelessly plug my husband’s blog.  He writes about things that go on in our house, but he approaches it from a humorous aspect.  He took some time off from writing while recovering from his shoulder surgery, but he’s back.  His latest post is The Alarm Clock Paradox. Check it out!


It has been a nice week with a lot of time spent on the couch with chocolate.  Enjoy your weekend!

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Wednesday, January 28, 2015

Our New York City Experiences

My family had the pleasure of visiting New York City this past weekend.  This was our second trip there.  Our last visit was in July 2010, so it has been a while.  


Our First Visit
We had a nice visit the first time we were there.  Our niece was with us.  We walked a lot, saw some different things, ate some great food, and our niece was able to meet up with a high school classmate.  The thing that sticks out in our mind from that trip was our surprise at how many subway stations were not handicap accessible. When we were done visiting with our niece's friend on that trip, she pointed out the nearest subway stop to us.  She was astonished when we told her we couldn't go there because there was no elevator.  She quickly became aware of the challenges we had on our trip.


Preparation for This Trip
This time we knew that subway transportation would be a challenge.  We did more research at home to familiarize ourselves with the needed accessible stops near things we wanted to do. We were also there for a specific purpose -  to attend the Casting Crowns concert at Carnegie Hall.  Anything we did above and beyond that was a bonus to our trip.


Our Visit
Because we drove from our home to the area, we stayed in Jersey City which is easier to get to by car.  We have stayed at the Doubletree Hotel both trips.  It's close to the PATH which is accessible (lucked out the first time because we didn't know to check for that).  The hotel staff was wonderful about giving us information, maps, suggestions, etc.  One desk clerk clued us into hopstop.com which will give subway directions and has a filter for accessible routes. Thank you!


We made it around the city just fine.  We did a lot of walking (over 17 miles in 2 days) because sometimes it was just easier.  Also, we had the opportunity to see some really cool things.  J took over 400 pictures on the 2 days we spent in the city.  

We visited Ellis Island and the Statue of Liberty, the 9-11 Memorial, Times Square, Grand Central Station, Rockefeller Center, ate at Junior's (didn't feel guilty about the delicious piece of devil food's cheesecake since I walked so many miles), consumed some Jamba Juice, had cupcakes from Magnolia Bakery, some goodies from Carlo's Bakery, and attended a concert at Carnegie Hall which we were able to admire and enjoy by ourselves for a while since we were seated early.  


Lasting Impressions
People of New York:  You have outdone yourself on your helpfulness and politeness to this visiting family!  Kudos to you!  We were all amazed at how helpful everyone was to us.


*We rode on a water taxi, and the workers were very helpful to ensure that S made it on safely.
*Statue Cruises:  The staff was amazing!  They were incredibly helpful in clearing paths for S to safely get on and off the ferry and helping lift his wheelchair when necessary.
*People who were willing to answer questions and offer help and assistance wherever we were.
*When S's front caster became lodged in a raise in the sidewalk, multiple people came forward to help my husband.  
*Security guards helped with doors at various buildings.
*On our return trip to Jersey City, the elevator was out at the Hoboken PATH station.  A worker came by to confirm with us which stop we needed since we would have had problems there.
*Any time we were on public transportation, the other passengers helped make room for S's wheelchair, offered up seats to our family, helped clear paths if we needed to get off, etc.


A Few Memories of Our Trip





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View from our room


We will have fun looking at pictures from our trip and reminiscing.  However, there will always be an overriding memory of this trip that will stick in our minds - the people and their willingness to help.  Thank you!


I will be on the couch with chocolate and my memories of the goodness in people.